Despina Nicola

Habits shape our lives in ways we often don’t fully realise. Known as the father of positive thinking, Norman Vincent Peale once said, “Repetition of the same thought or ...

I first met Thomas when we were children, playing in the park in our neighbourhood. Even back then it was clear that he was different to other kids. While the ...

Karangahape Road in Auckland, New Zealand, is infamous for its vibrant nightlife and its dark underbelly of the sex trade. Strip joints and streetwalkers are often hidden in plain sight. ...

Gender roles of the ancient past ensured the continuity of the tribe. DESPINA NICOLA looks at what this means for modern relationships Deep down, we all have the same ancient ...

Transformation, redemption, and the power of community I am a firm believer that supportive and compassionate relationships, especially when your life has become unmanageable, can put you on the right ...

DESPINA NICOLA looks at the power of vulnerability and seeking help In the modern educational landscape there’s a strong emphasis on fostering independence, problem-solving skills and self-reliance in students. ...

DESPINA NICOLA outlines how to discover truth and transformation through Plato’s Cave As a life coach, I firmly believe that the journey towards personal growth and enlightenment begins with ...

Break out of the negative habits that have sometimes been drilled into us since childhood says DESPINA NICOLA Investing in self-care can often bring up unpleasant feelings about the way ...

If you are feeling demoralised, a simple tool invoking a mother’s love could help says DESPINA NICOLA Many live out their lives in the hope of being rescued by ...

If you are stuck in a rut, there are exercises that can lift you out of it says DESPINA NICOLA Last Sunday while out with my friend, I noticed how ...

It is possible to overcome dependency says DESPINA NICOLA, one small step at a time There are no primary reasons why dependencies occur. Many times, the dependent can’t control ...

We’ve all had success on a diet for a couple of weeks before the pounds begin to pile on again. Don’t be disheartened says DESPINA NICOLA but grab ...

While it is easy to judge, it will only harm your own wellbeing says DESPINA NICOLA Our learned patterns are anchored beliefs from childhood. We view them as facts. We ...

Accepting your faults as part of who you are can turn them to your advantage says DESPINA NICOLA Never in my wildest dreams had I thought that I would be ...

Even if low expectations have been programmed in since childhood, it is possible to adopt a brighter outlook and succeed says DESPINA NICOLA Children are like recorders, downloading material that ...

How can young people be raised when the instant gratification of a life online affects all aspects of their life asks DESPINA NICOLA Few would disagree that the young of ...

While making the wrong decision can have a massive impact on your life it is important to learn to see past it says DESPINA NICOLA A crucial decision can cause ...

As social media continues to dominate our lives it can be hard to ignore how perfect everyone else looks. But DESPINA NICOLA warns it is important to be grateful for ...

With the summer behind us the thought of work with nothing to look forward to can be bleak. DESPINA NICOLA on how it is important to feel that we make ...

To feel confident requires overcoming a lot of failures. But DESPINA NICOLA says it can be achieved by tackling the problems life throws at you I am sitting in class ...

It is difficult to feel enduring happiness by being attached to the physical world says DESPINA NICOLA To explain happiness, let’s picture life as the ocean. Life comes in ...